Although much of the research highlights mentor-initiated termination, the mentee sometimes puts an end to things. Some adolescents might present the termination as a fait accompli, while others broach the subject more tentatively. An adolescent’s stated desire to end the relationship should not always be taken at face value, however. As many mentors can attest, threatening to end the relationship is a very effective way for youth to signal discontent. However, once it is clear that the youth is determined to leave, the mentor should not attempt to influence the decision.

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